The thing about happiness & bliss is that if every relationship was always rainbows and sunshine we’d all fall in love with the first person we ever dated. It would all be easy and we’d marry at 12 and live happily ever after.
The truth is in the same day you can totally blog about what a g33k your boyfriend is, and how much you love him; later in the day you can totally be on the verge of wanting to kill one another and questioning it all.
Today is one of those days when things are tougher than they normally are, and I have to continue to remind myself again that if it was all easy then there would be no Only-Child and Smitten in the first place. Today is one of those days when you just keep breathing even through the tears.
I know that as hard as is today for both of us, that tomorrow will be another day and we will pick up at happiness and bliss and will be better for the rain of today.
Relationships take a lot of work. A lot more than at times I’ve been prepared to expect or even give but the rewards are worth it. Happiness and bliss might only live forever in fairy tales and candy land, but I've decided that I’ll take my chances with some hard work and the love that grows because of it. At the end of the day that’s the love that makes it thru thick or thin.
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